I understand habits are very hard to change and improve because I myself have alot of bad habits as well. In order to live under the same roof together for a lifetime, it's either you make some changes as much as you can, or you accept the habits of the other person. I believe sometimes I can close one eye on some habits but there ARE still SOME habits I don;t think I can take it if it goes on forever.
I also admit I am a rather stubborn person and it is very difficult for me to accept others telling me what is bad about me. Sigh...so difficult right? Have to really swallow my pride..cannot be like that.
Kun has been doting me and giving in to me since day one and it somehow becomes a natural thing and I am so used to it I take it for granted at times. On his side, I can say he has somehow spoilt me to some extend. So, I conclude that there are fault on both sides. I have always been treated like a "princess" by him, and when he suddenly shows his anger or frustration, it is often hard for me to accept and take it. It somehow HURTS even MORE in this situation because he has always been so nice and gentle towards me.
If I am going to be SUPER picky, there are sooo many things I don't like about guys' habits. Actually I thought of listing some of it here just for fun but I'm being lazy haha.
Another problem that many but not ALL will face is the parents. Normally it is the guy's parents who cause the problem. Hmm.. there are two kinds of mothers I know so far: 1) those who is too quiet and heck cares about everything and 2) those who are so naggy and more on the talkative side
I really don't know which one I prefer Haha.. I seriously prefer my OWN mother! She is the BEST hehe! I know all of your mothers are the best in your hearts la! :P
When I speak to friends whose bf's mother falls under the quiet and heckcare type, I envy them because at least they don't have to bother abt the guy's mother. They can do whatever they want and whenever they want without any "worries" or "considerations" required. But I also know that some girls feel that if the guy's mother is so quiet, they can't talk to them and they dont feel like part of their family. They will try very hard to open up the mum and hope that they are able to talk more and get along well.
Actually kun's mom is not that bad. I know her heart is good and she is a nice person basically. I've understood her character but still unable to accept it sometimes especially when I am not in a good mood or when my "internal anger" gets burnt easily hehe! :D Yea, I am quite a hot-tempered person.
I know kun's mum loves kun alot and misses him alot because he spents most of his time at my house. Now that he's started working, I am OK if he stays home most of the time. (at least recently haha..maybe because a bit buay song him for the past few days). To me, sometimes his mum doesnt know how to be "auto"..and always spoils our initial plans. They are a family who always execute "last minute" matters. If this goes on, what is the use of having plans!? His mom is also very straight-forward, and the things she says sometimes make me feel very unhappy. I cannot
really be myself when I am over there, and I dont dare to talk back like at home. I dun wanna show disrespect but then, I become very not myself and it is so uneasy and feels so "tight" inside sometimes.
I am afraid if I am really myself over there, I will offend her unknowingly.
Well..enough of all this today. hehe I;m watching Olympics now. Quite exciting the womens pole vault.
Weather was so hot this morning, hope that it will drizzle for long later. I think should be going out later ba..boring weekend again and baby went for training this morning and later going to his friend's bbq at pasir ris.
I cannot wait to go Taiwan! Aghhg! Who can tell me where is a good place with good exchange rate to change my money?Chinatown?Golden Mile?
So bored so bored..!!! Maybe I should go jogging later..
